Actually posted yesterday on my tumblr.

Today I had an epiphany while washing the dishes.

• I don’t need to resolve every conflict I’m involved/dragged into because the fact of the matter is, some people WANT to have a problem with me.
• I don’t need to waste my time & energy responding to every critic because no matter what I do or say will not convince them otherwise.
• I don’t need to persuade anyone into liking me. Again, some people don’t want to like me.

If someone has a problem with you & you’re genuinely doing your personal best to be a good person, that’s their problem, NOT YOURS.

I’ve finally accepted the fact that not everyone will like me. Not everyone will agree with my views & it is what it is.

At the end of the day, no matter what anyone online/offline has to say about me, wither it be the legit or slander, I’m unquestionably happy with the life I lead.

Being a stay-at-home mom is really thee best thing one could ever have.

I’m not going to lie, there are times when I want to run away & have a little holiday without the kids & my balder-half. There are times when I want to choke my children and kick the dog but if life were PERFECT, it’d be boring.

Having the luxury to stay home is incomparable to any material possession your man can purchase for you.

I know a lot of gals online like to talk their shit about us S-A-H moms because they’re FORCED to struggle for what they have because they’re either a single mother or just don’t have the choice to do otherwise. It’s not my fault. Focus on your life & getting to where you want to be so you don’t feel the pathetic need to focus on how I’m living & pick me apart. Your opinion is irrelevant because you haven’t walked in my shoes nor are even at my level, YET.

I’ve been through the struggle so I’ve earned my keep as far as I’m concerned.

I have the education & experience to obtain a very well paying, successful & fulfilling career but because I chose to go another route doesn’t make me any less of a woman. I’ve been there, done it and that’s that.

I don’t feel guilty, power-less or dependent on another person. He provides the financial means & guess who provides EVERYTHING else. We’re a TEAM & I’m happy with where I’m at in my life. Can you say the same?